Learning Grief

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What is the Poet’s Reaction after his sister’s death in Learning Grief? 

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What is the poet’s reaction after his sister’s death? 

In “Learnings Grief,” poet Kaiser Haq (1950-Present) takes us through personal moments of loss. In the process, he explores how grief evolves from childhood confusion to mature acceptance.

Intense Grief: After his sister’s death, the poet experiences deep sadness and emotional numbness. When the poet was a child, he lost his grandmother. He felt confused as a child. Unlike his reaction to his grandmother's death, the loss of his sister leaves him feeling isolated and profoundly affected. Daily life feels empty and meaningless to him. The poet describes how he loses all interest in life. He says,

…I thought:

I’ll never laugh or smile, I’ll never

Feel joy again….

During this time, the poet withdraws from friends. His reaction is similar to that of a “penitent monk,” as he a
voids play and happiness. He is consumed by a quiet sorrow. This period of mourning highlights his internal struggle. The weight of grief makes him feel detached from life around him.

Acceptance: However, his feelings gradually shift, and he eventually finds joy again when “a joke burst from [his] lips.” This moment signifies his emotional healing. He realizes he can feel happiness once more.

In conclusion, Kaiser Haq’s "Learning Grief" shows that learning grief is a journey from confusion to acceptance. The poet’s reaction to his sister’s death reveals his journey through intense grief, followed by a gradual acceptance and return to normalcy.

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